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News - Fringe diary: Stand-up comedian December 31, 2007

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News - The Magazine Monitor December 30, 2007

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Dead giveaway! On your Mac quiz, one of the questions asks you to name the best gadget as voted by magazine readers in the US. Under the “See Also” links, it has one stating “Apple laptop is ‘greatest gadget’”
Made me laugh anyway…
Dave,
Coventry

Coming into the season of April showers a thought occurred to me. When walking to a destination in the rain, are you less likely to get wet if you run or walk?
Imogen, London
MM note: perhaps this might help.

Re the No casual sex - it’s immoral, say nine out of 10 women story. Are the phone numbers of those (statistically correct?) 46 women available from the research team, or are they a jealously guarded secret?
Minty,
The far north

So nine out of 10 women say casual sex is immoral!? Not overly surprising, but a survey based on 46 people surely leaves a rather large margin for error!?
Chris,
Bournemouth

Helen’s comment about Metro only being interesting when read over someone’s shoulder (Wednesday letters) reminds me of a newspaper placard 20 years ago which read “There’ll be something interesting in tomorrow’s xxxxx.” On one poster at Victoria Station someone had scrawled “Bother - I’ve got today’s”.
Maggie,
South London

I know that “quiz” is used by the media because “questioning” is too long but after seeing an Evening Standard placard saying “Blair Faces Police Quiz”, all I could think was that the first question might be “What is Sting’s real name?”
Martin Jordan,
Ingatestone, Essex

According to MPs call to end TV badge auctions, “the BBC is examining ways to verify that a [Blue Peter] badge actually belongs to the person wearing it.” Will all competition winners now be required to submit iris scans, fingerprints and DNA samples, and be entered on the National Identity Register database?
Neil Golightly,
Manchester, UK

Re: Are gravestones really dangerous? - that rather depends on your views about cause and effect.
David Dee,
Maputo Mozambique

With the boat race coming up on Sunday, does anybody else remember Barry Davies’ immortal commentary a few years ago: “Here come the Oxford team, being led out by their cox”? Sadly a Google search comes up blank, so perhaps I imagined it.
Graham Parsons,
Frome

Comrade Ian’s colleague has porridge for dinner (Wednesday letters); I have it for pudding every evening.

Isabella,
Sheffield


There’s a lovely Chinese supermarket near me selling tasty and interesting stuff - and “Instant Fish Flavour Porridge”. Be warned - this has the texture of damp cardboard and the taste of badly rotten fish. I will eat anything, but one spoonful left me feeling like my taste buds had been violated…
Duncan Hoffmann,
Sheffield

Re: Your 20 worst fears. Does the Magazine have a fear of counting down? 10 - Coleslaw, 9 - Cats, 8 - Wind Farms, 9 - Animal costumes…
Steve,
Southampton

What happens on Thursdays to ensure that the letters go missing? Or is Wednesday night your office night out? If so are we all invited?
Andrew,
Newcastle upon Tyne

Damn you Paper Monitor! I recorded The Apprentice and was looking forward to watching it with a stiff drink and you have ruined it for me. There you go blabbing it without any prior warning for those of us who want to stay in blissful ignorance.
Alice,
Hungerford, UK

Combining two of the current Paper Monitor running themes. The Metro today edited the throne that Camilla is sitting on in India to gold from silver.
Bas,
London

Tim Noble asks why his photocopier copies the second side first of adult sex dating pages (Wednesday letters) - duplexing photocopiers do this so that if there is an odd number of sheets the last one doesn’t get stuck in the duplexer.
John Airey,
Peterborough, UK

Look, I don’t have long as my wife’s in the next room and she thinks I spend too much time on the computer. Anyway I would like to tell you what I think about you never publishing my comments. I really think that you are a bunch of - blast, she’s coming. I’ll get back to you later.
Martin,
High Wycombe

Please print my letter. Amateur match adult dating, please print some from other people.
Ali,
Stithians, Cornwall

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It’s time for the caption competition.

This week’s picture shows former US president Bill Clinton, attending an event in London with the Chancellor, Gordon Brown. Mr Clinton was giving a talk on progressive politics and globalisation.

6. Donal Casey, Dublin
“The things I do for Hillary.”

5. Francis O’Shaughnessy, London
“I wonder if he knows that’s my hand on his knee.”

4. Charles Frean, Bedford, Massachusetts
“There once was a man name of Brown… no, wait… The Chancellor, whose name is Brown… no, how about… I once heard a speech by G Brown… Where his eyebrows went up and went down… He’d spit and he’d sputter… Not a word did he utter… That didn’t make me want to frown! Cool… gotta tell Hillary.”

3. Paul, Salford
“Ah, those happy day of melon testing.”

2. Lee, Cardiff, UK
“When he said this was going to be taxing, I didn’t think…”

1. Miles, Harrow
Gordon begins his speech with his favourite globalisation anecdote.

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Chancellor nude last week and now the Telegraph goes and says that…

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Paper Monitor, Wednesday). It has some fascinating and amusing stories in it, but only if you read it over someone else’s shoulder. As soon as you have your own copy, it transforms itself and becomes dull and annoying.
Helen,
London

So, to improve fitness, the government has “set a target … to ensure that … no one will be more than a 20-minute journey away from their nearest leisure centre.” Is that a 20 minute walk or drive?
Steve Sutton,
St. Albans, UK

Re: Terminal 2 at Heathrow being older than Terminal 1(Monitor Letters, Tuesday) . When our photocopier at work does a double-sided copy, it says “Copying second side first”. Does that make sense to anyone?
Tim Noble,
Prague, Czech Republic

Vienna has underground lines U1, U2, U3, U4 and U6. A good trick to play on tourists is to tell them to take the U5 then follow the signs for the “Einbahn” (”one way street”).
Violetta,
Blackpool

I was rather concerned, upon using the Energy Quiz, to find that the Citreon emits 109 grans per kilometre. Does this explain why nursing homes are so full?
S Murray,
Chester, UK

Monitor note to Murray: Yes, very clever, thank you.

Concerning Porridgewatch: Colleen (Roonie’s girlfriend) has a flat stomach due to eating porridge for breakfast, according to Heat magazine.
Alison,
Banchory, Aberdeenshire

It seems porridge is no longer confined to the breakfast table. A colleague of mine just yesterday made some for her dinner. Coincidence, or conspiracy?
Comrade Ian,
Cardiff

Even the fast food industry is jumping on the bandwagon. McDonald’s are now advertising porridge with jam on the radio! Almost made me fall over in the shower in shock!
Julia,
Aberdeen

Why care about disaster in Iraq (Paper Monitor, Wednesday) if we’re all doomed anyway?
Sarah,
Leeds

Now that spring is here, I can officially announce that the days are now longer than 2 Routemasters (or 1.6 Giant Squid).
Erol Fehim,
London

Re: Handsets get taken to the grave. Downwardly mobile perhaps?

Candace,
New Jersey, US

Is my eyesight going or is Tony Blair starting to look like Tony Blackburn?
Martin Willoughby,
Stevenage, UK

Do you think your readers could come up with a Flexicon entry for those people who ambush you with flyers as you leave a Tube station? We have muggers and chuggers but aduggers doesn’t have a good ring, does it? There were three outside Chancery Lane this morning.
Rod,
London, UK

My tooth hurts. That’s not supposed to funny, it really does.
Daniel Gray,
Melton Mowbray

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Crazy Cycle Lane story and because Paper Monitor is in a bad mood) the ban is reinstated.


Never mind though, because we’re all still doomed from Global Warming. The Independent front page says so again today. (Does nobody care about Iraq any more?)


Let’s have a look at some cartoons for light relief. Matt in the Daily Telegraph obviously relishes being unPC today, with a PMT joke - and though he does make it funny, it’s the kind of gag one might expect from Mac in the Daily Mail (the man who brought us Blitish Airways, remember?)


Mac’s joke today isn’t funny either, but it’s all right because there’s a double page spread of cute animal pictures under the headline “The gentle side of the world’s fiercest predators”. Could be the subtext to cute animal pictures in the Daily Mail, really.

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Monitor Letters, Monday). Airports are funny things. Chicago O’Hare Airport has terminals 1, 2, 3, and 5. Apparently terminal 4 is a bus station. New York’s JFK airport has 9 terminals yet terminal 5 has been mysteriously “temporarily closed” for a couple of years now, and Charleston WV airport is tiny and only has 4 gates, yet they are randomly called A, B, C & 10. Quite what happened to the other 9 gates is not clear….
Amanda,
Adult free online dating site, UK

Re Paper Monitor, Tuesday: How did the Manchester Evening News get past the Metro censor? Spot on rag and all, but are we to savour the delights of the Derby Evening Telegraph or the East Anglian Daily Times next?
Stig,
London, UK

Re. Tuesday’s miniquiz and the latest fashion craze after wristbands. The popular answer rightly shows that trainer laces will be the next hit rather than dog tags - that’s because the RNLI (Royal National Lifeboat Institution) launched laces for its annual SOS day in January. In this case SOS stands for Save Our Soles (scuse the pun) and is in aid of the RNLI’s volunteer lifeboat crews and their training.
It’s not too late - send for your laces now via sos@rnli.org.uk and be prepared for RNLI SOS day 2007.
Liz Cook,
Poole, Dorset

OH MY GOD! Did you see the Metro today? A full 12 page spread about porridge, an in-depth investigation into Princess Diana adult canada dating service, pictures of Keira Knightly AND David Brent in totally irrelevant articles, it was amazing! Oh wait, you decided not to read it didn’t you. Oh well…
Tracey,
Sheffield

Perhaps I’ll get a letter published today. With all of those public sector workers out on strike, the Monitor surely can’t have as many as usual! Why does the letters page have a red stamp? I haven’t seen one of those in years.
Liz,
Cumbria

I’m on strike all day so have time to sit down and read The Magazine Monitor at last…while I eat my porridge (with honey - sorry to any purists reading this). Shall I make good use of my time by switching on my Porridge-cam?
Jon Brown,
Winchester, UK

Porridge watch - Sky News reports on a celeb chef trying to feed truckers porridge rather than fry ups. A challenge indeed…
Elspeth,
London

Did anyone hear JK and Joel on Radio 1 today? - they wanted someone who was eating porridge in the hall to say they love Hall & Oates.

Ann,
Stirling, Scotland

Tim Wyatt wants to know the collective Flexicon entry for those of us who don’t get our letters published. It’s disappointniks.
Carol,
Portugal

Litterarti.

Kip,
Norwich UK

Nonitors.
Derek Behan,
Blackburn,Lancs

Because we know people don’t get published, yet we don’t know how many, the collective noun for such unfortunates should be a ‘Rumsfeld’.
Steve,
London, UK

The Monitorpedoed.

Joyce,
Halifax, Canada

Could you write quicker please?
Andy Simpson,
London

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strangely similar selection.


The Independent, not concerned with matters like girls throwing eggs or crazy cycle lanes, adds further evidence to the theory that it has only two front pages, “Iraq: what a disaster” and “Global warming: we’re all doomed”. Today’s it’s the latter, near enough.


Finally an apology from Paper Monitor, which failed in its duty to report punmeistery. Yesterday’s Daily Star, front page: “WITCH DOCS PUTS HEX ON BECKS.” Good work.


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BBC fights Blue Peter badge sales, 27 March.) How dare they allow Blue Peter badges to be bought and sold like common Victoria crosses or World Cup winner’s medals.
Kelly Mouser,
Upminster, Essex

Re: Porridgewatch: porridge is the “breakfast of the month” for the Food Doctor newsletter…although it is ’special’ high fibre porridge. The mind boggles.
Livvy,
London, UK

Is it just me, or does Professor Vaughan Williams (Billion pound game, 27 March) bear a striking resemblance to Ricky Gervais?
Matthew Bayliss,
Liverpool

If Terminal 2 is Heathrow’s oldest terminal (BAA to shut Heathrow’s Terminal 2), why isn’t it called Terminal 1?
M,
UK

Not owning a Blue Peter Badge, I have to present my LBQ keyring. This gains me free advice on all sorts of excursions. To be honest, they just say I should get out more.
Kieran Boyle,
Oxford, England

You say that Noel Edmonds was not keen on Deal or No Deal, even after seeing the French 90min version (Faces of the Week, 25 March). To be honest I’m not surprised, goodness only knows what they showed him, because “A Prendre ou a Laisser” is on TF1 every night from 1900 till 1945……or did they make him sit through two episodes ??
Phil,
Nmes, France

Re 10 Things We Didn’t Know…” about the apparent decline in sparrows, surely the current average of 4.4 sp/garden today compared with 10 in 1979 only makes sense if there are the same number of gardens in the UK today as in 1979. Does anyone know whether this is true?
L.S. KLAR,
Chelmsford, UK

I am seriously disappointed by the ‘executive decision’ not to peruse the champion of the commuters - the Metro (Paper Monitor, Thursday). Its daily mix of informative news, humorous anecdotes and really bad cartoons and horoscopes provide sustenance for millions on their travels. Shame.

Tim Wyatt,
London, UK

Keep up the good work, you’re brilliant.
Linda,
London

What’s the collective noun for people who fail to get their letters published in the Monitor?
Tim Wyatt,
London, UK

It’s really hot in here
Duncan,
London

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News - Polanski called ’sexual predator’ December 29, 2007

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Director Roman Polanski has “a adult dating sims reputation as a cynical sexual predator”, a defence lawyer has told his libel trial.


But Mr Polanski’s lawyer told London’s High Court that the director had been “monstrously libelled for the sake of a lurid anecdote”.


Mr Polanski is suing over claims he made sexual advances to a woman shortly after his wife was murdered in 1969.


Vanity Fair magazine denies libelling Mr Polanski in the July 2002 article.


Timing of incident


The article said Mr Polanski made advances to “Swedish beauty” Beate Telle in New York restaurant Elaine’s shortly after the death of his wife, Sharon Tate.


The magazine has since accepted the incident did not happen when Mr Polanski was on his way back to Hollywood for Ms Tate’s funeral, but said it occurred about two weeks later.


Ms Tate was murdered by Charles Manson’s “family” at the couple’s home in Bel Air, California.


Mr Polanski won the right to testify from Paris, amid fears that if he entered the UK he would face extradition to the US, where he is still required to face child sex charges.

Sharon Tate

Tate was eight and a half months pregnant when she was killed

In his closing speech on behalf of the magazine’s publishers, Conde Nast, lawyer Tom Shields said the key to Mr Polanski’s libel action was “Roman’s law of morality”.


“This law knows of no rules - only violations of civilised conduct which, it appears, can be readily excused.”


He said the magazine’s case was that Mr Polanski was “well capable of behaving badly” by the end of August 1969.


Mr Shields said the fact that Mr Polanski had casual sex within a month of his wife’s death revealed a “certain callous adult dating online” to her memory.


An honourable man would not behave the way he behaved - even in the Swinging Sixties
Defence lawyer Tom Shields

The defence lawyer added: “As to whether Mr Polanski’s reputation is capable of being damaged, sadly, we would say, it is beyond repair.”


He went on: “An honourable man would come to this court, an honourable man would return to California, an honourable man would not behave the way he behaved - even in the Swinging Sixties.”


Mr Shields added: “These matters are not minor blemishes on his reputation. They are scars which can never be healed.”


‘Symbolic award’


He urged the jury that even if his defence failed, he should not be entitled to any damages and the jury should give Mr Polanski “a symbolic award”, such as “the price of a cinema ticket”.


“By that symbolic award, you can send a message across the Channel about the moral values which decent people cherish.”


Mr Polanski’s lawyer, John Kelsey-Fry said the director had been in “utter grief” after his wife’s death, not - as the defence team claimed - “utter indifference”.


“The truth is that Mr Polanski was about as removed from callous indifference as is possible to imagine,” Mr Kelsey-Fry said.


Mr Polanski was about as removed from callous indifference as is possible to imagine
Mr Polanski’s lawyer John Kelsey-Fry

He said that at a press conference on 19 August 1969, it had been an “casual dress sex datingy skirt fact” that Mr Polanski was not real casual sex dating to his wife’s name and memory, “but precisely the contrary”.


“He was at pains - and I mean obvious pain - to honour it, protect it and defend it,” Mr Kelsey-Fry said.


“The burden is on the defence to prove their case. The most obvious witness to call if their case is true, and she supports it, is Beate Telle,” he added. “You have heard not one word of evidence from her.”


In summing up, Mr Justice Eady told the jury that “much has been made of Mr Polanski’s lifestyle and his attitude towards casual sex in his earlier years”.


But he said it was important to remember that it was not a “court of morals”, adding: “We are not here to judge Mr Polanski’s personal lifestyle.”


Telling them that an “absolute maximum ceiling” of 200,000 in damages could be awarded, he sent the jury out to begin their deliberations.


The case was adjourned until Friday.


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News - Are rapists getting away with it? December 28, 2007

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Some commentators believe the increase in alcohol consumption among women in the past 20 years has made it harder for juries to believe victims did not consent. And a rise in accusations made against acquaintances has increased the focus on consent, which is difficult to assess.

Dr Katherine Rake, director of the Fawcett Society, says police and prosecutors’ attitudes towards victims need to be more sensitive.

More casual gay sex dating, the public debate about rape has to move away from presenting violence against women as acceptable, and victims of rape as blamed or disbelieved, she says.

Among the many women too afraid to go to police, many do contact charities like Rape Crisis Centre. Bee estimates they deal with nine times as many cases as the police.

There is hope on the way for rape victims in Casual sex dating dating free. A Sexual Assault Referral Centre is due to open in Gloucester in 2008 and this “one-stop” location for victims will enable them to report a rape without pressing charges or giving their name. Then they can think about the consequences of legal action while the police collect evidence.

Bee believes it will make little difference unless public attitudes change. “I can tell you that [this centre] might get us up to the average of 5% and that’s still nothing.”



Thanks for your comments. The debate is now closed.

To say that the conviction rate needs to be raised is tantamount to pre-judging the verdict. British law has always been based on fair trials. Whatever happened to innocent until proved guilty?
Andrew, Bristol

The substantial increase in complainants and charges would show much of the prejudice in making a complaint has gone. The lack of convictions could be due to either a lack of evidence, less public sympathy and the possibility no crime was committed.
damian, london

Why does the fact that the woman has been drinking make her “unreliable” and “asking for it”, whereas men who have been drinking are still apparently able to decide that although she said “no” she didn’t really mean “stop”. What a woman wears and the fact she has had a drink should never be taken to mean she always wants sex.
Karen, New Malden

I was involved in a high profile rape case where a photographer I visited ‘tried’ to rape me. I did not report this as I felt in some way to blame as I felt that I should have not have put myself in the situation in the first place. This of course (unfortunately) is a common feeling amongst people who have found themselves in a similar situation. I was watching the news one day and discovered that this so called photographer was facing up to 60 similar charges, some of which were actual rape, I then felt that it was my duty to speak up. I will not lie and say that the process was easy because it was not and I did on more than one occasion want to stop the proceedings but even though I had to give intimate details and be cross examined in crown court and made to feel that somehow I was the ‘bad person’ I am glad that I saw it through. He was later charged and sentenced to 6 years imprisonment.
Claire, Gloucestershire

Two people in a room. No video or sound recording. They have sex. After the event one says there was no consent, the other says there was. Both agree the sex involve scratches being inflicted, one says because they were both very active participants, the other says rape. What other evidence is there apart from the statements of the two there? How is anyone, police, court, or complaints watchdog, to ascertain exactly what happened?
Rick, Lincoln

It is really unbelievable that the government, press and all the human rights casual local sex dating are clamouring so loudly for higher conviction rate. Should you not be clamouring for justice to be upheld what ever it is, be it be true or a fabricated allegations. The logical assumption of very low rate of convictions is that many of the complaints are found to be baseless. So are you all suggesting that you should somehow pervert the justice and convict more of the defendants irrespective of whether the court believes they are guilty or innocent?
Sudhir Reddy, Dundee

I was raped when I was 15 and still a virgin. I knew my attacker but because my dad was a policeman and his view at the time was I “had been to a party and was wearing a short skirt - was asking for it!” I was only 15 and had only had one glass of wine. Have been in counselling only recently.
Anon

Please, why can people not accept the fact that if you drink so much that your memory is impaired you cannot make a reliable witness?
Geoff Winkless, Leicestershire, UK

The law should side with the innocent party, be it the person who was raped OR the accused if no offence occurred. With the number of miscarriages of justice its no wonder convictions are low as sending an innocent person to jail is the last thing anyone wants.
Darren, Lincoln

Having sat in on a case like this, to me it was very his word against her word. How can a jury decide if that’s enough evidence to convict someone?
None, None

Does it not occur to any one involved in this that false allegations do happen? As with all things, each case needs to be addressed in its own right, and problems inherent in that should be addressed. Making “targets” for conviction, however, is just absurd: there will be more pressure to convict regardless of the facts of the case, and more people’s lives ruined by the false allegations thrown at them.
Wes, Bristol

Part of the problem is the fact that so many women are falsely accusing men of rape nowadays. A woman gets drunk and gives consent, yet in the morning can accuse the male of rape. Add to that cases of women accusing celebrities of rape, yet the first port of call is Max Clifford, then the local police station, doesn’t stand to reason. A judge and jury have to take these in to account before establishing ‘beyond reasonable doubt’.
James, Durham

Surely a prosecution which finds someone wrongly accused of rape not guilty is as successful as finding someone rightly accused of rape guilty…

Dan , Bristol

I was raped in December 2005 and I never reported it to the police. Mostly because I knew it wouldn’t be taken seriously. I live with the guilt of thinking that my attacker - who was known to me - might do it again to someone else and I could have prevented it. If I’d had more faith in our legal system I’d have gone to the police. But because I was drinking that night, I knew I’d be the one put under the spotlight, not my attacker.
RatherNotSay, Leeds

One of the things that has changed since 1980 is that women now feel more confident in reporting a genuine rape, but unfortunately, the one thing that is often forgotten is that these women will probably be very traumatised by their experience. They are told not to shower or clean themselves before going to the police, but often it is the first thing they want to do to comfort themselves. They are told to go to the police immediately, but they are left in a daze or live in fear that their attacker may return and so delay going to the police until they are confident enough. It doesn’t make their case any easier to defend, but even if they cannot bring their case to court, they need assistance and understanding from the police.
Heather, Wolverhampton

A friend of mine was raped at Victoria Coach station (in London) by a stranger in 2001. When, after much persuasion, she went to the police to report the crime they told her that there was no point in taking it any further. They said they would not be able to locate the man, even if there were CCTV evidence available, and that in any case only 8% of reported rapes ended in a conviction. They basically told her she should get on with life rather than trying to catch the rapist and then go through the trauma of a trial. When the police give this kind of advice, it’s not wonder that so few rapes end in conviction.
Clara, London

I was accused of rape in the UK. I was arrested, humiliated, I had intimate samples taken, I was told these would remain on file whatever the outcome. The next day the young lady (whom I had never had any intimate relations with) retracted her story. I still had to remain on police bail for many months, losing my resident status over here in the USA, until the forensics, which took 5 months (!!) came back negative. The girl meanwhile had been sectioned at the behest of the police themselves, in a mental hospital as a delusional adult free online dating site. The officer who questioned me later admitted that of the cases she investigated, 80% were either girls getting drunk and regretting having sex the next day, or girls afraid of facing up to their pregnancies and using ‘rape’ as an excuse for outcome of casual sex. It took me many months and thousands of dollars to regain my status here, whilst I spent two years in the UK jobless, sometimes homeless, and often friendless.
Doug, Northville USA

I agree that justice should be upheld. However, rape is an extremely difficult case to prove. He says one things, she says another. Often she will be the one who is villified for being raped. We put the blame on the rape victims themselves. She was drinking too much, she was wearing a short skirt/low top, she just regretted it in the morning. I feel that’s just terrible. It’s easier for a man to stand there and lie about raping a woman than it is for women to go to the police. And rape is not an easy thing. The brain blocks the memory to protect itself. You know it happened, but not the details. The end result is that there are very few convictions - and because women know how rape cases go, that makes them even LESS inclined to report. We need to stop blaming and start piecing these poor people together.
Joie, Southampton

News - Reporter claims Sheridan affair December 27, 2007

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A freelance journalist claimed in court she had an eight-year affair with former socialist leader Tommy Sheridan.


Anvar Khan also claimed she saw Mr Sheridan taking part in group sex with another woman and his brother-in-law.


The accusations were made at the Court of Session in Edinburgh where Mr Sheridan is suing the News of the World newspaper for defamation.


The Sunday tabloid published a series of stories about the MSP’s sex life which he claims were untrue.


On the fifth day of the civil action, Ms Khan, 38, claimed she flew from London to Glasgow to meet up with Mr Sheridan, his brother-in-law Andrew McFarlane and Scottish Socialist Party member Catrine Trulle in November 2002.


She testified that Mr Sheridan took part in a threesome with Mr McFarlane and Ms Trulle before driving to a swingers club in Adult gay dating, where Mr Sheridan paid the entry fee for the party of four.


“It was very much a place where people go to have casual sex but it was not a sexy environment,” she said.


‘Open relationship’


Ms Khan told the court she first met Mr Sheridan in 1992 when she interviewed him in Saughton Prison, Edinburgh.


The jury heard she was working as a journalist for The Herald newspaper, while the MSP was serving a jail sentence for his role in the Poll Tax protests.


She said their “on-off casual sex relationship” continued after Mr Sheridan married his wife, Gail, in June 2000.


Ms Khan said: “He always maintained he had an open relationship.


“My position is that it is the married man who takes the vows. I was single.”

Anvar Khan

Ms Khan told the court she first met Mr Sheridan in 1992


Earlier on Monday, the court heard from a friend of Mr Sheridan’s who said he almost quit working for the Socialist MSP after hearing about a stag night party in a Glasgow hotel.


Keith Baldassara, 49, said he considered leaving his post after Mr Sheridan’s brother-in-law spoke about a “night of madness”.


Mr Baldassara told how he heard about the stag night party held for Andy McFarlane, who married the sister of Mr Sheridan’s wife, Gail.


He said: “He (Mr McFarlane) just commented about an event in a hotel which was madness. He just said it was a night of madness.


“He said there wasn’t enough room in the bed and there was somebody specially flown in from Birmingham for the night.”


‘Consenting adults’


Mr Baldassara said he later spoke to Mr Sheridan about the party and the politician admitted he was at the stag night, but that was all.


“He said he didn’t casual seb sex dating sop. I accepted that,” he said.


“He said he was present but confirmed to me that a lady from Birmingham was brought in but he said it was consenting adults who were happy to be involved.


“I didn’t have any issue with that. I never had an issue with that. My main concern was that it was paid for. He assured me that it wasn’t.”


The court heard the two men are no longer friends though Mr Baldassara is still the MSP’s parliamentary case worker.


The Glasgow calgary casual sex dating also said he had been told, by Mr Sheridan, of a visit to a swingers club in Manchester accompanied by Ms Trulle.


Mr Sheridan is suing News Group Newspapers, publishers of the News of the World, for 200,000.


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News - Minister backs contraceptive jabs December 26, 2007

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Minister for Children Margaret Hodge has said contraceptive injections could help to prevent teenage casual sex dating stockton.

Mrs Hodge said many schoolgirls have children at an early age because they lack self-esteem.

She is urging young mothers to lecture their peers in schools in a bid to cut the number of unwanted pregancies.

“You do want children to put off having sex at such a young age,” Mrs Hodge told the Woman wanting casual sex dating newspaper.

She said: “You do want them to have appropriate contraceptives and you want responsibility from such girls and boys.

“What is really interesting is this contraceptive injection. If people are having sex, you don’t want them to have babies at that age.”

Stayed together

She branded single motherhood a “bad thing” and said it was best for children if their parents stayed together.

Mrs Hodge warned of the dangers of teenage pregancies and she urged young mothers to go into schools to make their peers more aware of the problem.



I want to get teen mums to go into the classroom and explain how hard it is, how poor you are, how you lose all your friends and how lonely it is


Margaret Hodge

“I want to get teen mums to go into the classroom and explain how hard it is, how poor you are, how you lose all your friends and how lonely it is,” she added.

But anti-abortion group Life criticised Mrs Hodge’s comments.

Life trustee, Nuala Scarisbrick, said: “The last 24 hours have seen an onslaught on our children urging them to have sex.

“First the Family Planning Association announces plans to issue a guidebook extolling the virtues of casual sex, looking for casual sex dating and single adult dating site regardless of age, then Margaret Hodge, Minister for Children, declares that girls under the age of consent should be offered contraceptive injections.

“The age of consent is there for good reason, to protect children from the kind of exploitation and casual sex dating com being promoted by the FPA and the Government.

“We should do everything in our power to ensure that these immoral guides do not reach our children.”

‘Informed decisions’

A spokesman for the Department for Education and Skills said the Government does not promote any one form of contraception over another.

He added: “Young people that cannot be persuaded to abstain from sexual activity should have access to health professionals to help them make informed decisions about the method of contraception that is most appropriate for them.

“Such young people should also be encouraged to talk to their parents”.

According to recent figures released by the charity Brook, one in 10 young people has already had sex by the age of 14.

As a result, the organisation recently launched a safe sex text messaging service in an attempt to cut pregnancies and sexually transmitted infections.


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News - Posters warn women of drink risk December 24, 2007

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Women are being warned to be aware of how much they drink, so as to avoid violent or risky situations.


A poster campaign by drinks lobby organisation the Portman Group shows a man lurking behind a woman, beneath the phrase “Who’s looking out for you?”


The Portman Group said it wanted to emphasise to women the dangers of drinking too much - from losing valuables to being assaulted.


The posters will be in 500 pub toilets adult dating russian site the country next month.


The campaign warns of other adult sex dating service dangers including getting into an unlicensed minicab, going home with a stranger and having unprotected sex.


Among young women aged 16-24, the adult gay dating drinking more than 35 units per week has more than tripled over the past 15 years, rising from 3% to 10%, the Portman Group said.


Judgement affected


“Alcohol affects your judgement,” said its chief executive Jean Coussins.


“You might think that taking that short cut or going home with a stranger is a good idea but you could be taking a huge risk.”


Research showed that while most sexual assaults occur between people who know each other, alcohol-related sexual assaults are more likely to occur between people who do not know each other well.


Other alcohol research showed that more than one in five men and one in six women admit to having unsafe sex after drinking too much, according to Alcohol Concern.


One in seven 16 to 24 year olds have had unprotected sex when drunk, while one in five had sex they later casual sex dating uk.


One in 10 have been unable to remember if they had sex the night before and 40% believe they are more likely to have casual sex after drinking.


The Portman Group includes Allied Domecq; Bacardi Brown Forman Brands; Beverage Brands; Carlsberg UK; Coors Brewers; Diageo; Interbrew UK; Pernod Ricard; and Scottish & Newcastle.

News - Polanski ‘in shock’ over article December 23, 2007

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Film-maker Roman Polanski told jurors he was in a “state of shock” when he read the magazine article that now lies at the centre of a London libel case.


He is suing over a claim he made sexual advances to a woman in a restaurant on the way to his wife’s funeral.


The Oscar-winning director spoke to the London High Court via video link from Paris, where he lives, as if he enters the UK he faces extradition to the US.


Publisher Conde Nast denies libel over an article published in July 2002.


Mr Polanski won the right to testify by video amid fears that if he entered the UK he would have to face child sex charges in the US.


He told the jury of nine men and three women: “This was the worst thing ever written about me. It’s absolutely not true.


“But I think it was particularly hurtful, because it dishonours my memory of Sharon,” he added.


That’s not the way I behave. Still I had some honour. Still I have it now
Roman Polanski


The article referred to events following the death of Mr Polanski’s wife, actress Sharon Tate, who was murdered by followers of US serial killer Charles Manson in Los Angeles in 1969.


“It’s all lies,” said Mr Polanski, wearing a black suit and standing during his testimony. “That’s not the way I behave. Still I had some honour. Still I have it now.”


Mr Polanski struggled to maintain his composure as he spoke of his late wife.


Sexual casual date sex dating


“Sharon was sweet, bright, brilliant. She had a great sense of humour. She was in my eyes the perfect woman.”


However, Tom Shields, lawyer for Vanity Fair, which published the article, suggested that Mr Polanski was not just a fugitive from justice, but something “grotesque” - a “fugitive from morality, from moral standards”.


“Well, you are putting it in a grotesque way,” replied Mr Polanski.


Questioned about his sexual promiscuity, Mr Polanski admitted he had been unfaithful to Ms Tate before and during their marriage.


In such moments some people turn to drugs, others to alcohol, some go to a monastery - to me it was sex
Roman Polanski


He spoke of how he sought solace in the opposite sex after the death of his wife, but was “unable to develop any lasting casual encounter sex dating“.


“The death of Sharon and the whole tragedy and of my friends was immeasurably sad to me,” said Mr Polanski. “In such moments some people turn to drugs, others to alcohol, some go to a monastery - to me it was sex.”


Mr Polanski’s lawyer, John Kelsey-Fry, said action was not about the director’s “somewhat laissez-faire attitude to casual sex” earlier in his life.


The director was convicted of having unlawful sex with a 13-year-old girl in Hollywood in 1977. He fled the US and faces immediate arrest should he return.

Mia Farrow

Actress Mia Farrow is expected to testify at the trial


Mr Kelsey-Fry said the incident was a “most unsightly blot” on Mr Polanski’s reputation, but that it had nothing to do with the current libel case.


He said the accusations levelled at the director in the Vanity Fair article suggested “a callous casual sex dating dateline to what had happened and to his wife’s memory of adult dating sex web site proportions”.


Publisher Conde Nast is based in the United States, but the claim is being pursued in the English courts, which are perceived as being more generous toward libel claimants.


Actress Mia Farrow is also expected to testify, in person, on behalf of the director with whom she made Rosemary’s Baby in 1968.


The case continues.


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News - Key figures in the Sheridan case December 22, 2007

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Gail Sheridan stood by her man. In evidence, she said she felt sick to the pit of her stomach when the allegations were made but said she trusted her husband and was proud of him.

Sheridan wife ’sick’ at sex claim

Angus Healy

Angus Healy, a retired social care worker and Gail’s father, said his son-in-law was with him when he was alleged to have taken part in group sex in a hotel suite in Glasgow.


Father-in-law provides alibi

Affair allegations
Fiona McGuire

Fiona McGuire, a former escort girl, claimed she had an affair with Mr Sheridan and both had participated in cocaine-fuelled five-in-a-bed sex. She was paid 20,000 for her story.

Escort girl claims Sheridan orgy

Anvar Khan

Anvar Khan, a freelance journalist, said she had an “on-off casual sex relationship” with Mr Sheridan for eight years and visited Cupids swingers’ club in Manchester with him.

Reporter claims Sheridan affair

Katrine Trolle

Katrine Trolle, a Scottish Socialist Party activist, told the court she had group sex with Mr Sheridan and visited Cupids swingers’ club. She said she had sex with the Socialist MSP in his home.


Sheridan in challenge to witness

Ann Colvin and Helen Allison

Anne Colvin and Helen Allison claimed they both saw Mr Sheridan in a threesome with another man and a woman in a private suite when invited to a party in a hotel in Glasgow.


Sheridan three-in-a-bed claim

Party politics

Colin Fox

Colin Fox MSP, Scottish Socialist Party leader, said Mr Sheridan admitted at an emergency meeting that he had visited a swingers’ club. Mr Fox returned from holiday to give evidence.

Fox tells of sex club admission

Carolyn Leckie and Rose Kane

Carolyn Leckie MSP and Rosie Kane MSP. Both women told the court their comrade had admitted he had been in a sex club and denied they were involved in a political faction fight.


MSPs’ evidence against former leader

Alan McCombes

Alan McCombes, senior SSP official, said he was giving evidence under the strongest possible protest and added his voice to claims Mr Sheridan admitted visiting a swingers’ club.

Sheridan ‘admitted’ being in club
Allan Green

Allan Green, the SSP’s national secretary, also said he had heard Mr Sheridan’s admission. The MSP had admitted his behaviour was reckless and had apologised.

Sheridan in swingers ‘admission’
Barbara Scott

Barbara Scott said she took notes at the emergency executive meeting and denied a suggestion by Mr Sheridan her minute was dodgy and concocted to undermine him adult dating agency.

Minute taker ‘incandescent with rage’
Alison Kane

Allison Kane, the SSP’s national treasurer, was the first witness called and the first to claim Mr Sheridan had admitted at an emergency party meeting that he had visited a swingers’ club.

Sheridan starts defamation action

Rosemary Byrne

Rosemary Byrne MSP was among Socialists who claimed they had never heard Mr Sheridan admit going to a swingers’ club. She also said minutes of the party meeting had not been ratified.

MSPs Scrabble and sunbed ‘vices’
Pat Smith

Pat Smith, a member of the SSP executive committee, said Mr Sheridan had denied attending a swingers’ club and claimed a minute taken at an emergency party meeting was inaccurate.

Sheridan sex club claim confusion

Keith Baldassara

Keith Baldassara, Glasgow councillor, said he almost quit working for Mr Sheridan after he heard about a “night of madness” during a stag night for the MSP’s adult gay dating.

Stag party ‘night of madness’

A tabloid perspective

Robert Bird

Bob Bird, editor of the News of the World in Scotland, said the tabloid’s claims about Mr Sheridan were 100% true and denied, when questioned by the Socialist MSP, being a chancer.

Sunday paper ‘does not tell lies’

Douglas Wight

Douglas Wight, then Scotland news editor for the News of the World, said Mr Sheridan’s public picture was at odds with his private life and read in court an interview with Fiona McGuire.

Call girl claims Sheridan affair

Allan Caldwell

Allan Caldwell, freelance investigative reporter, said a contact called him to say he had just seen Mr Sheridan in Cupids club in Manchester. Mr Caldwell tipped off the News of the World.

‘Sheridan in sex club’ call

Paul Holleran

Paul Holleran, of the National Union of Adult dating site sls swing, said Anvar Khan was put under pressure by the News of the World to sign an affidavit about her claims.

Sheridan sex writer ‘pressured’

Legal argument

Richard Keen QC

Richard Keen QC, sacked by Mr Sheridan. Did not attend court for part of the trial. Lord Turnbull described him as “one of the most talented and experienced practitioners in the entire country”.

Legal counsel sacked by Sheridan

Graeme Henderson

Graeme Henderson, junior advocate, also sacked after he accused Anne Colvin of credit card fraud. Mr Sheridan told jurors he was “less than happy” with his defence.


Sheridan ‘incandescent with rage’

Mike Jones QC

Mike Jones QC, for the News of the World, said Mr Sheridan had a “monstrous ego” and had displayed a recklessness that had ended many a great political career.

Sheridan witness ‘dignity’ claim

Alistair Clark

Alistair Clark, junior counsel, said in his opening speech that the News of the World was a newspaper “which prides itself on campaigns and exposing hypocrisy on the part of public figures”.


Sheridan starts defamation action

Lord Turnbull

Lord Turnbull presided over the case. In his direction, he told the jury their decision must not be influenced by emotion, bias, their personal views or extensive media coverage.


Jurors consider Sheridan sex case

News - African family values December 21, 2007

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As the AIDS epidemic rages on, the whole world is trying to learn from one tiny country in east Africa.


Those who oppose the promotion of condoms - including Cardinal Alfonso Lopez Trujillo in the Vatican - point to Uganda as an example of how family values can beat the AIDS pandemic.


Unlike its African neighbours, the proportion of HIV positive people in Uganda has actually declined dating personal adult ads over the past decade or so.


There is some dispute about the exact figures, but statistics from the Ugandan government show HIV prevalence has gone from over 20% in some areas to a 6.2% national average in the latest government data.


Cardinal Trujillo says Uganda proves that there’s an even better way than condoms to stop the epidemic: to stop people having casual sex at all and encourage young people to remain abstinent until they marry.


In his paper Family Values versus Safe Sex, he argues that Uganda reduced its HIV rate by promoting chastity and encouraging abstinence before marriage and fidelity to one’s spouse in the 1990s.

Zero grazing


You cannot just succumb to what is wrong because you want to save your life
Cardinal Emmanuel Wamala, Archbishop of Kampala


The scientific world is divided over how exactly Uganda has beaten back the AIDS epidemic. Some scientists say the Cardinal may have a point on Uganda.


Former WHO epidemiologist Dr Rand Georgia casual sex dating told Panorama: “When it comes to interrupting the HIV dynamics at the population level, we just have not seen success from condom promotion.”


Christian groups in Uganda stage regular rallies where thousands of young people pledge to remain virgins until they get married. The government also pitches in - one of the largest gatherings, the Uganda Youth Forum, is held annually by the country’s First Lady Janet Museveni.


The Ugandan government has encouraged abstinence from sex, and a famous policy of “Zero Grazing,” or being faithful to your partner.


The message seems to have gotten through. Surveys show that Ugandans are losing their virginity at a later age and have fewer sexual partners once they start having sex.


A major report by the American aid agency USAID, to which Dr Stoneburner contributed, also concluded that although condoms had a role, “a decrease in multiple sexual partnerships” was the most important factor in Uganda’s success against the virus.

However, the Ugandan government also promotes condoms - it gave out 66 million free in 2003.


Easy as ABC

The Ministry of Health says it has an “ABC” approach to prevention - telling the population to be Abstinent or Be faithful, but if not to use a Condom.


“Without the condom I think I would still be having problems with this very sexually active age group, with a very high sexual drive,” Sam Okware, the first director of Uganda’s pioneering National AIDS Control Programme, told Panorama.


“It’s a combination of everything,” he said. “It’s like saying when you have a car, which are more important, the front wheels or the behind wheels? Or the engine? All the three are equally important - the A, that’s the abstinence, the behaviour change as well as the condom.”


Because abstinence, faithfulness and condom use were all promoted at the same time, scientists say it’s impossible to know for sure which one is the most influential reason that HIV rates fell in Uganda.



Risky sex

Uganda countryside

Abstinence and condom use in the Ugandan adult dating uk went up in the 1990s

Data from Britain’s Medical Research Council, which has been closely studying a sample population in rural Uganda since 1989, show that both abstinence and condom use went up in the early 1990s.


The MRC data indicates that while some people chose abstinence or fidelity, those people who did choose to have risky sex anyway started using condoms.


By 1996, 60% of men and 39% of women in the MRC study reported using a condom with their last casual partner.


“We know that people continue to have sexual activity despite the presence of the epidemic,” said Dr Nelson Sewankambo, Dean of Makerere University Medical School. “They can only go so far with abstinence.”

Problems with condoms

But Dr Sewankambo also pointed out that condoms can fail more often in the developing countries of Africa.


“Condoms might cause a bigger risk in Africa than they have in the West,” he said.


He said storage conditions in shipping the condoms from abroad, and storage of them in hot conditions in people’s homes, could lead to damage if people weren’t careful enough.


Dr Sewankambo said another problem was that condoms weren’t readily available in Uganda, especially in rural areas.


At the last count, Uganda averaged 9 condoms a year per sexually active male.


Condom education is also an issue, Dr Sewankambo said. “Without appropriate education, if people get hold of condoms, you may find that they may be misusing them and therefore that could pose a risk to these individuals.”

Education


We won’t go to heaven if we use condoms. As Catholics we are not allowed to use them
Harriet Nakabugo


He added that in some parts of Africa, “cultural practices that might again put the user at greater risk than one in the West.”


He said practices like dry sex - where natural adult dating gay site is deliberately dried out by the female partner - can cause “micro tears” in condoms which increase “the risk of adult dating service uk of HIV.”


But Dr Sewankambo said he thought these problems could be overcome, and should not dissuade the world from promoting condoms as part of the fight against AIDS.


“If efforts are made to educate people properly when giving them condoms [and] also to store condoms properly, it should be possible for condoms to achieve maximum protection in Africa,” he said.


“The risks are significant but that should not deter us from promoting condoms in Africa,” he added. “I want to see them promoted and promoted aggressively.”

Others say the unique secret of Uganda’s success was that the government was open about HIV from the mid-1980s onwards - unlike other African governments which denied HIV’s existence well into the 1990s.

Open about AIDS


Uganda also instituted regular surveillance of the proportion of HIV positive people in the country, and made that information public to let people know the scale of the problem.


Dr Okware worked on HIV policy from the outset and says Uganda’s AIDS prevention approach was multi-sectoral. The government and health agencies worked together with Churches, Mosques, NGOs and local leaders to get their message across.


“All the communities and everybody put HIV/AIDS as an important part of development,” said Dr Okware.

In Uganda’s countryside, Harriet Nakabugo continued to have unprotected sex with her husband even though she knew he was HIV positive.


“We wont go to heaven if we use condoms,” she told Panorama. “As Catholics we are not allowed to use them.”


Harriet now believes she is HIV positive.


“She believes that it’s wrong,” Cardinal Emmanuel Wamala, the Archbishop of Kampala, told Panorama. “You cannot just succumb to what is wrong because you want to save your life.”

“Maybe that is why you get martyrs,” he said.